Friday, July 23, 2010

800 wickets and still not tired !!!

 
At the start of his final Test, he was eight wickets short of entering territory that no other cricketer had. He began his last day in Test cricket needing two, and took one. His partner threatened to take everything else and he could do nothing but keep on bowling, and wait. The umpire denied him a palpable lbw. VVS Laxman, who kept him at bay for so many hours, ran himself out and there was only one wicket left to take. He waited and perhaps even fretted. He nearly ran out the last pair himself, twice. After 23 wicketless overs, with perhaps growing doubt about whether it would come at all, the moment arrived, and Muttiah Muralitharan was there, where no man had gone before. The long wait for the 800th wicket only exemplified the toil that went into his preceding 799.


                       Muttiah Muralitharan carries his son Naren




 Muttiah Muralitharan is carried off the field by Kumar Sangakkara and Dammika Prasad



                Muttiah Muralitharan poses with his wife Madhimalar


    Muttiah Muralitharan salutes the crowd with the ball that fetched him his 800th wicket






 Muttiah Muralitharan walks down a red carpet into the field for his last day of Test cricket




 Sri Lanka president Mahinda Rajapakse shakes hands with Muttiah Muralitharan during the lunch interval






Yuvraj Singh and the Indian players line up to congratulate Muttiah Muralitharan, Sri Lanka v India, 1st Test, Galle, 5th day, July 22, 2010


Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Latest update after Swiss Bank has agreed to disclose the funds

Our Indians' Money - 70, 00,000 Crores Rupees In Swiss Bank




Yes, 70 lakhs crores rupees of India are lying in Switzerland banks. This is the highest amount lying outside any country, from amongst 180 countries of the world, as India is the champion of Black Money.


Swiss Government has officially written to Indian Government that they are willing to inform the details of holders of 70 lakh crore rupees in their Banks, if Indian Government officially asks them.


On 22-5-08 , this news has already been published in The Times of India and other Newspapers based on Swiss Government's official letter to Indian Government.


But the Indian Government has not sent any official enquiry to Switzerland for details of money which has been sent outside India between 1947 to 2008.. The opposition party is also equally not interested in doing so because most of the amount is owned by politicians and it is every Indian's money.


This money belongs to our country. From these funds we can repay 13 times of our country's foreign debt. The interest alone can take care of the Center s yearly budget. People need not pay any taxes and we can pay Rs. 1 lakh to each of 45 crore poor families.


Let us imagine, if Swiss Bank is holding Rs. 70 lakh Crores, then how much money is lying in other 69 Banks? How much they have deprived the Indian people? Just think, if the Account holder dies, the bank becomes the owner of the funds in his account.


Are these people totally ignorant about the philosophy of Karma? What will this ill-gotten wealth do to them and their families when they own/use such money, generated out of corruption and exploitation?


Indian people have read and have known about these facts. But the helpless people have neither time nor inclination to do anything in the matter. This is like "a new freedom struggle" and we will have to fight this.


This money is the result of our sweat and blood.. The wealth generated and earned after putting in lots of mental and physical efforts by Indian people must be brought back to our country.

As a service to our motherland and your contribution to this struggle, please circulate it this note amongst your friends and relatives and convert it into a mass movement.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Symbol for Indian Currency !!!



IIT post-graduate gives Rupee its symbol



The jury has given its verdict: the rupee will retain its Indian character with an international flavour. The five-member panel has chosen IIT post-graduate D Udaya Kumar's design from among five shortlisted symbols and recommended it for Cabinet approval.


Kumar's symbol is an amalgam of the Devanagari 'Ra' and the Roman capital 'R' without the stem, very much in line with what Finance Minister Pranab Mukherjee had envisioned. "We intend to formalise a symbol for the Indian rupee which reflects and captures Indian ethos and culture," Mukherjee said in his Budget speech this year.


The chosen symbol has the Finance Minister's approval, said a Ministry official.


The Ministry had organised a symbol design competition with a prize money of Rs 2.5 lakh with the condition that it should be applicable to the standard keyboard, be in the national language script or a visual representation and should represent the historical and cultural ethos of the country.


While the basic aim of the new symbol is to provide the Indian rupee international recognition as the country's economy exerts more influence in the global space, the unique sign will also help isolate the currency from the current abbreviation 'Rs' which is used by neighbouring Pakistan, Nepal and Sri Lanka.


Kumar's concept, an official said, is based on the Tricolour and "arithmetic equivalence". While the white space between the two horizontal lines gives the impression of the national flag with the Ashok Chakra, the two bold parallel lines stand for 'equals to', representing balance in the economy, both within and with other economies of the world.


When contacted, Kumar said he was unaware of his design having been ranked first by the jury. "I hope your news is real," he told The Indian Express from IIT Bombay. He joins IIT Guwahati as a faculty member in the Department of Design tomorrow.






Thursday, July 15, 2010

Vedam Remake Film Vaanam – Silambarasan Walpapers, Videos, Story, Mp3 Songs, News, Lyrics

Today July 10 Silambarasans film  will start the shoot of his new quickie Vaanam,The film is being produced by VTV productions and Magic Box pictures. It is a remake of the critically acclaimed Telugu film Vedam which was directed by krish.Simbu is turning into ‘Cable Raja’, a popular character done by Allu Arjun in the original which also had Anushka, Manoj Manchu, Lekha Washington and Manoj Bajpai in the lead.From Telugu only Anushka and Manoj Manchu will be there in the Tamil version which will be directed Krish who did the original.The music director of this film is yuvan shankar raja and camera by Nirav Shah and editing by Anthony.



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Thursday, July 8, 2010

Octopus Paul and the World Cup's other surprise stars

Paul's predictions

Had anyone predicted this before the World Cup they would have been locked up in an asylym. But our eight-legged friend's uncanny knack of predicting all of Germany's results correctly this summer has created the tournament's undoubted internet sensation. He is so famous he even has his very own Twitter account: @PPsychicOctopus. Full of typos...



Mind you, not everyone has been happy about Paul's predictions. The Argentinians threatened to kill and eat him in an act of vengeance after he said Germany would win the quarter-final. Apparently octopus goes very well with potatoes, a little bit of olive oil and pepper. The ocotpus, though, remains undeterred and his handlers are confident he will still be making predictions in 2014 and beyond.

Octopus Paul swims by boxes containing the Argentinian and German flags, pr...

Berlin: Soccer fans across Germany will be hoping a "psychic" cephalopod's fabled skills of prophecy have failed him after Paul the octopus predicted a German loss in their World Cup semifinal with Spain.

With a 100 percent record so far, the British-born aquarium dweller at Sea Life in Oberhausen, western Germany has become a celebrity having correctly predicted a series of German wins and even Germany's surprise group stage loss to Serbia.

On Tuesday, Paul once again was given the choice of picking food from two different plastic containers lowered into his tank -- one decorated with a Spanish flag and one with a German flag.

The container which Paul opens first is seen as his pick. He settled on both containers at first in a sign of hesitation before opening the box with the Spanish flag.

The decision was broadcast live on several news channels in Germany, although commentators immediately cast doubt over the prediction by Paul, who was born in Weymouth, England.

While Paul has been faultless at the World Cup so far, he is not infallible -- at Euro 2008 he incorrectly picked Germany as the victor against Spain.


After Germany's heartbreaking 1-0 defeat to Spain in the World Cup semi-final, angry German fans are calling to kill Paul, the psychic octopus, who had predicted that Spain would win the do-or-die clash.

German fans had been praying that the two-year-old octopus, who was born in Britain and later moved to the German aquarium in Oberhausen, had made a mistake when he chose the Spaniards to triumph.

Some sections of the crowd were also singing anti-octopus songs.
According to a local newspaper, there have been "a host of comments on Facebook, Twitter ... suggesting Paul should be fried, barbecued or turned into a seafood salad or paella".

"Others wanted to throw him into the shark tank," The Sydney Morning Herald quoted the paper, as having written on its website.

Major predictions, which came true in this World Cup, have been in the Germany-England Round of 16 clash and Germany-Argentina quarterfinal game. Paul had chosen Germany's flag on both the occasions.

If the eight-limbed oracle survives the threats, the fans would be thinking twice about dismissing his advice in future. 

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Indian Cricket Captain Dhoni Tied Knot With Sakshi Rawat

Indian cricket captain Mahendra Singh Dhoni surprised everyone on 4th July 2010 when he tied knot with Sakshi Rawat in a highly privately held ceremony at a resort near Dehradun. Not only wedding was a surprise but there was a private engagement ceremony held on Saturday night.

Media failed to get even a glimpse of the wedding. The wedding is said to be top secret affair of Indian cricket captain Dhoni. Only few high profile guests attended the marriage like BCCI President Shashank Manohar, ICC chief Sharad Pawar, actor John Abraham, director Farah Khan, cricketers Suresh Raina, Harbhajan Singh, R. P. Singh and Ashish Nehra. The wedding venue is owned by Vasundhara Raje.


Police force did not allowed any trespassers, only the car numbers which was given by cricketer’s family was allowed to enter the gates. High level of security was arranged for the marriage.


Even relatives did not know about the marriage. Relatives were informed that Dhoni wants to meet them at Dehradun. Dhoni’s uncle also did not have an idea about his nephew’s marriage.
Dhoni surprised everyone by getting married to Sakshi on Sunday. Sakshi is a 21 year old girl and she completed her hotel management recently.


Dhoni and Sakshi know each other since school days. Even their fathers worked together in Ranchi. Both the families are close.


After the marriage, now a reception is organized in Mumbai by Dhoni’s family on July 7th. Hope media coverage is possible for the reception and we get to see pictures and videos of the couple.

Mahendra Singh Dhoni‘s marriage-Rumours quashed, find out the truth…


Indian cricket captain Mahendra Singh Dhoni‘s marriage to long time friend Sakshi Singh Rawat was an extremely hush hush and close guarded affair.

It has been learnt that they have been going around for two years and were extremely secretive about their romance.

Even though there have been rumours that the wedding took place all of a sudden, this is just another rumour. Truth is that the wedding has been planned well in advance, but of course it was supposed to be a secret and has remained so.

The couple got married Vishranti resort in Dehradun owned by former Rajasthan chief minister Vashundhara Raje Scindia.

It was an extremely low key affair and there were barely 50 guests. Of Indian cricketers only Suresh Raina, R P Singh, and Harbhajan Singh were present.

Actor John Abraham attended the wedding sans girlfriend Bipasha Basu who was unable to attend it because of her work commitments.

It has also been learnt that Dhoni’s wedding was a strictly vegetarian affair and a 15 course mean was served to the guests.

Dhoni has been one of the hottest bachelors of the country and we are sure that this news will come across as a heartbreak to many of them.


Bipasha Basu Says - Dhoni Party Not On; Rumour mongering Forced Dhoni's Marriage

While Bollywood friends were supposed to be gearing up to throw the Indian captain a party cum reception for his wedding to Sakshi Rawat, rumour has it that the bride’s family was not happy with Dhoni’s link ups, forcing Mahendra Singh Dhoni to tie the knot earlier than he would have liked.
Bollywood actor, John Abraham, who is a close friend of Dhoni, was rumoured to be throwing him a bash on Wednesday alongside his girlfriend, Bipasha Basu, who could not attend the wedding in Dehradun because of shooting schedule.But Bipasha has denied via Twitter that a party was on the cards.However, while the party was to see the mingling of crickters and members of the Bollywood industry, there are rumours that the reason the Indian captain got married so early in a hush hush manner was to allay the fears of the bride’s family who were disturbed by rumours of his link up to Asin.
Given the penchant for cricketers falling for Bollywood actress as has happened every once in a while, Sakshi’s family did not want to perhaps wait to find out if the story would change in their daughter’s case. Dhoni apparently was not interested in marriage until the end of the ICC World Cup 2011. But he seems to have come around to celebrating the big day before his own planned schedule.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Salute Agaram Foundation !!!


Salute Agaram Foundation !!!
About Agaram:

Established on 25th September, 2006 by renowned Film Actor Mr. Suriya, Agaram aims to provide quality education to the under-privileged and deserving students. We strive to bridge the gap between these deserving candidates and quality education by overcoming the barriers in acquiring it. With the firm belief that the educated mind can not only eliminate social evils but also aid in the socio-economic upbringing of the society, we work towards providing appropriate learning opportunities to the rural populace who do not otherwise have access to quality education.

Their Vision:

"To bring about a significant positive change in the socio-economic status of the rural society by offering quality education to the deserving individual."

Their Mission:


In our endeavour to offer quality education to the deprived, our objectives are as follows:

  • To identify educational institutions where we can enhance the quality of amenities and the faculty. This will in turn bring about a significant positive change in the quality of education for its students.
  • To create a sense of awareness on the importance of education and its significance among the rural masses.
  • To establish Out-of-school Learning Centers in rural areas that provides students with quality tuition on the curriculum along with special emphasis on soft skills for overall personality development.
  • To be a reliable link between the deserving individual and Samaritans who are willing to aid. To cater to the educational requirement and monitor the development of the deserved individual.
  • To identify and gather a group of capable individuals within a rural community who would take up the task of imparting and ensuring quality education and amenities to the deserving students within their own society.
  • To establish an educational institution in the long run, that is committed to imparting quality education and personality development for students in the rural areas.
Activities
Vidhai (for quality education)

Life is like two sides of a coin, people who are in need of help and people who are able to and willing to offer it. The same can be said about educational assistance. Just as a Blood bank enables the donor to donate blood to save the life of someone in need; Our database aims at introducing our patrons to the worthy and deserving candidate, to whom quality education would grant a fresh lease of life. In this age where quality education comes at a cost that not everyone can afford, there are Samaritans who are willing to offer financial assistance to those in need. Many socially responsible individuals and organizations have approached us in the past, expressing willingness to offer financial assistance for imparting education to the needy. It is hence that we decided to be the bridge between the deprived candidate and quality education which is made possible through a sponsorship from our Patron.

A small deed by someone can create a big difference in another’s life. We work towards identifying and authenticating the deserving candidate and also the cost associated with sponsoring quality education for the candidate. Depending upon the quantum of sponsorship and preferences recorded with us, details of the Sponsorship and Educational Institution for the appropriate Candidate are then made available to the benefactor. Upon confirmation the details of the Sponsorship (Candidate, Benefactor, Educational Institution etc…) are then recorded on the database, post which the Benefactor can then directly provide their contribution to the respective educational institution. On behalf of the benefactor we also maintain the academic records of those students chosen for sponsorship.


Agaram Learning Centre

The Educational Institution plays a very vital role in the quality of education imparted to the students. The basic requirements like amenities and the Faculty have a strong bearing on the Educational Institution. A vast majority of the Educational Institutions in rural Tamilnadu lacks these basic requirements and hence is unable to provide Quality Education. This can be addressed if the student could attend Private tuition to compensate for this lack of infrastructure, which unfortunately is a luxury that most people neither have access to, nor can they afford. This is what Agaram tries to address through our Learning Centers.

At the learning centre we not only try to provide them with better coaching on their curriculum but also emphasize on all round development of the individual through soft skills training and personality development programs. There are 10 such centers in different Districts of Tamilnadu that is run by Agaram today. Each center is resourced with at least One Faculty (Tutor), trained and remunerated by Agaram. Agaram organizes for the Faculty to undergo training to handle multi-level and multi-grade curriculum. The Faculty is aided by Volunteers who are responsible for coordinating all the activities for the center. Averages of 40-50 students from 5th to 8th Std. are chosen to benefit from each centre. The faculty would tutor these students for about 2 ½ hours daily, out of which an hour and a half are dedicated to academics and the remainder of time focuses on soft skills and personality development. Apart from this special workshops are conducted on overall personality of the students.

Special care is taken to identify the special talents and interests of these students. Adequate care is taken in nurturing these skills and talents along with providing plenty of opportunity to exhibit and further hone these skills. The objective of the learning center is to develop Educated, Cultured and Strong Individuals who will have the preparedness and courage to forge a strong and successful future for themselves and for the community from which they come.



Experience

"Children are one third of our population and all of our future." Are we caring enough for their future?

At Agaram-Vazhikatigal, every member does! Through our mission of mentoring the students and not merely funding their education, we go a step further in bringing out their talent, dream, skill and desire, paving way for every kid to achieve their goal.

Vazhai an NGO who have pioneered in this concept of mentoring, have now prompted Agaram to adopt the same.

Agaram-Vazhikatigal nurtures school children in the remotest parts of Tamil Nadu, India... where parents are daily wage laborer and obviously cannot fend for their little children, and if somehow these parents do manage to send their children to school it is just until they are old enough to become laborers themselves. This is why we came up with a mission to nurture these underprivileged children.

Like all children these kids too have dreams, and we work towards helping them make it a reality. We are attempting to nurture, guide and build a whole new generation of students, so that they, in turn, do the same for the generation that follows.

These children need mentors... and one of them could be a motivated person like you. Mentoring here in Agaram means more than just education... As a mentor you can open a whole new world for them... inspire them...

Mentors are registered volunteer members of Agaram foundation professionals who can spare their time and some money to take care of one child’s education and, more importantly, help realize the child’s true potential by providing vital guidance and support through the years. In this program a mentor interacts with the student regularly, teaches them the basics of general awareness about the society, personal hygiene, inter-personal communication, educates them as well as guide them through their turbulent lives.

Students are also encouraged to write letters and postcards to their mentors. This not only provides a means for regular update, but also gives the mentor an opportunity to tone up the communication skills and overall development of the child. A mentor meets or speaks to his/her ward frequently, gets to visit them once in two months and this regular contact is priceless for the Child. This in turn helps the child to be more confident and they feel at ease when they meet their mentor the next time.

Knowledge they say increases by sharing, this is why we aim at bringing mentors like you closer to these students so that at the end both the receiver and the giver benefit.. While you try to teach our children all about life, our children will teach you what life is all about. All that these children ask from you is your support and a little time and we are sure that you will gain more than what you give. At the end of the day you'll be glad for investing your energy because you would know that somewhere far away a child is motivated and inspired... all because of you.

If you wish to enable these tasks, become a volunteer at AGARAM and make a child’s dream come true!!!

To Register as a Volunteer Please follow through this link http://agaram.in/volunteer_register.php

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOU QUIT SMOKING...

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOU QUIT SMOKING...

Immediate rewards

Within 12 hours after you have your last cigarette, your body will begin to heal itself. The levels of carbon monoxide and nicotine in your system will decline rapidly, and your heart and lungs will begin to repair the damage caused by cigarette smoke.

Within a few days, you'll probably begin to notice some remarkable changes in your body. Your sense of smell and taste may improve. You'll breathe easier, and your smoker's hack will begin to disappear, although you may notice that you still cough for a while. And you'll be free from the mess, smell, inconvenience, expense, and dependence of cigarette smoking.

Immediate effects

As your body begins to repair itself, instead of feeling better right away, you may feel worse for a while. It's important to understand that healing is a process - it begins immediately, but it continues over time. These "withdrawal pangs" are really symptoms of the RECOVERY process (see "Withdrawal Symptoms and Activities That Might Help).

Immediately after quitting, many ex-smokers experience "symptoms of recovery" such as temporary weight gain caused by fluid retention, irregularity, and dry, sore gums or tongue. You may feel edgy, hungry, more tired, and more short-tempered than usual and have trouble sleeping and notice that you're coughing a lot. These symptoms are the result of your body clearing itself of nicotine, a powerful addictive chemical. Most nicotine is gone from the body in 2-3 days.

It's important to understand that the unpleasant after-effects of quitting are only temporary and signal the beginning of a healthier life. Now that you've quit, you've added a number of healthy productive days to each year of your life. Most important, you've greatly improved your chances for a longer life. You've significantly reduced your risk of death from heart disease, stroke, chronic bronchitis, emphysema, and several kinds of cancer - not just lung cancer. (Cigarette smoking is responsible every year for approximately 130,000 deaths from cancer, 170,000 deaths from heart disease, and 50,000 deaths from lung disease.)


WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS AND ACTIVITIES THAT MIGHT HELP*
SYMPTOM ACTIVITY

Dry mouth; sore throat, Sip ice-cold water or fruit juice, or gums, or tongue chew gum

Headaches Take a warm bath or shower. Try relaxation or meditation techniques.

Trouble sleeping Don't drink coffee, tea, or soda with caffeine after 6:00 p.m. Again, try relaxation or meditation techniques.

Irregularity Add roughage to your diet, such as raw fruit, vegetables, and whole- grain cereals. Drink 6-8 glasses of water a day.

Fatigue Take a nap. Try not to push yourself during this time; don't expect too much of your body until it's had a couple of weeks.

Hunger Drink water or low-calorie liquids. Eat low-fat, low-calorie snacks (see Snack Calorie Chart).

Tenseness, irritability Take a walk, soak in a hot tub, try relaxation or meditation techniques.

Coughing Sip warm herbal tea. Suck on cough drops or sugarless hard candy.

*Adapted from "Quitting Times: A Magazine for Women Who Smoke," funded by the Pennsylvania Department of Health; prepared by Fox Chase Cancer Center, Philadelphia.


QUITTING FOR KEEPS...

Congratulations

Now you're ready to develop a new habit - not smoking. Like any other habit, it takes time to become a part of you; unlike most other habits, though, not smoking will take some conscious effort and practice. This section of the booklet can be a big help. You'll find many techniques to use for developing the nonsmoking habit and holding on to it.

By reading this section of the booklet carefully and reviewing it often, you'll become more aware of the places and situations that prompt the desire for a cigarette. You'll also learn about many nonsmoking ways to deal with the urge to smoke. These are called coping skills. Finally, you'll learn what to do in case you do slip and give in to that urge.

Keep your guard up

The key to living as a nonsmoker is to avoid letting your urges or cravings for a cigarette lead you to smoke. Don't kid yourself - even though you've made a commitment not to smoke, you WILL sometimes be tempted. But instead of giving in to the urge, you can use it as a learning experience.

First, remind yourself that you've QUIT and you're a NONsmoker. Then, look closely at your urge to smoke and ask yourself:


Where was I when I got the urge?

What was I doing at the time?

Whom was I with?

What was I thinking?

The urge to smoke after you've quit often hits at predictable times. The trick is to anticipate those times and find ways to cope with them - without smoking. Naturally, it won't be easy at first. In fact, you may continue to want a cigarette at times. But remember, even if you slip, it doesn't mean an end to the nonsmoking you. It does mean that you should try to identify what triggered your slip, strengthen your commitment to quitting, and try again.

Look at the following list of typical triggers. Does any of them ring a bell with you? Check off those that might trigger an urge to smoke, and add any others you can think of:


Working under pressure

Feeling blue

Talking on the telephone

Having a drink

Watching television

Driving your car

Finishing a meal

Playing cards

Drinking coffee

Watching someone else smoke

If you're like many new nonsmokers, the most difficult place to resist the urge to smoke is the most familiar: home. The activities most closely associated with smoking urges are eating, partying, and drinking. And, not surprisingly, most urges occur when a smoker is present.

How to dampen that urge

There are seven major coping skills to help you fight the urge to smoke. These tips are designed for you, the new nonsmoker, to help you nurture the nonsmoking habit.

1. Think about why you quit - Go back to your list of reasons for quitting. Look at this list several times a day - especially when you're hit with an urge to smoke. The best reasons you could have for quitting are very personally yours, and these are also your best reasons for staying a nonsmoker.

2. Know when you're rationalizing - It's easy to rationalize yourself back into smoking (see "Common Rationalizations"). Don't talk yourself into smoking again. A new nonsmoker in a tense situation may think, "I'll just have one cigarette to calm myself down." If thoughts like this pop into your head, stop and think again! You know better ways to relax - nonsmokers' ways, such as taking a walk or doing breathing exercises.

Concern about gaining weight may also lead to rationalizations. Learn to counter thoughts such as "I'd rather be thin, even if it means smoking." Remember that a slight weight gain is not likely to endanger your health as much as smoking would (cigarette smokers have about a 70-percent higher rate of premature death than nonsmokers). And review the list of healthy, low-calorie snacks that you used when quitting.

3. Anticipate triggers and prepare to avoid them - By now you know which situations, people, and feelings are likely to tempt you to smoke. Be prepared to meet these triggers head on and counteract them. Keep using the skills that helped you cope in cutting down and quitting:


Keep your hands busy - doodle, knit, type a letter.

Avoid people who smoke; spend more time with nonsmoking friends.

Find activities that make smoking difficult (gardening, washing the car, taking a shower). Exercise to help knock out that urge; it will help you to feel and look good as well.

Put something other than a cigarette in your mouth. Chew sugarless gum or nibble on a carrot or celery stick.

Avoid places where smoking is permitted. Sit in the nonsmoking section in restaurants, trains, and planes.

Reduce your consumption of alcohol, which often stimulates the desire to smoke. Try to have no more than one or two drinks at a party. Better yet, have a glass of juice, soda, or mineral water with a celery stick to nibble on.

4. Reward yourself for not smoking - Congratulations are in order each time you get through the day without smoking. After a week, give yourself a pat on the back and a reward of some kind. Buy a new record or treat yourself to a movie or concert. No matter how you do it, make sure you reward yourself in some way. It helps to remind yourself that what you're doing is important.

5. Use positive thoughts - If self-defeating thoughts start to creep in, remind yourself again that you're a nonsmoker, that you don't want to smoke, and that you have good reasons for it. Putting yourself down and trying to hold out through willpower alone are not effective coping techniques. Mobilize the power of positive thinking!

6. Use relaxation techniques - Breathing exercises help to reduce tension. Instead of having a cigarette, take a long deep breath, count to 10, and release it. Repeat this five times. See how much more relaxed you feel?

7. Get social support - The commitment to remain a nonsmoker can be made easier by talking about it with friends and relatives. They can congratulate you as you check off another day, week, and month as a nonsmoker. Tell the people close to you that you might be tense for a while, so they know what to expect. They'll be sympathetic when you have an urge to smoke and can be counted on to help you resist it. Remember to call on your friends when you're lonely or you feel an urge to smoke. A buddy system is a great technique.

Not smoking is habit-forming

Good for you! You've made a commitment not to smoke, and by using this booklet, you know what to do if you're tempted to forget that commitment. It's difficult to stay a nonsmoker once you've had a cigarette, so do everything possible to avoid it.

If you follow the advice in this booklet and use at least one coping skill whenever you have an urge to smoke, you will have quit for keeps!

Relapse: If you do smoke again

If you do smoke again - and many successful ex-smokers relapse at least once before they quit for good - here's what to do:


Recognize that you've had a slip. A slip means you've had a SMALL setback and smoked a cigarette or two. But your first cigarette or two didn't make you a smoker to start with, and a small setback doesn't make you a smoker again.

Don't be too hard on yourself. One slip doesn't mean you're a failure or that you can't be a nonsmoker, but it's important to get yourself back on the nonsmoking track IMMEDIATELY.

Identify the trigger: Exactly what was it that prompted you to smoke? Be aware of the trigger and decide NOW about how you'll cope with it when it comes up again.

Know and use the coping skills described above. People who know at least one coping skill are more likely to remain nonsmokers than those who don't know any.

Sign a contract with yourself to remain a nonsmoker.

If you think you need professional help, see your doctor. He or she can provide extra motivation for you to stop smoking. Your doctor also may prescribe nicotine gum as an alternative source of nicotine while you break the habit of smoking.

MARKING PROGRESS...

Each month, on the anniversary of your quit date, plan a special celebration.

Periodically, write down new reasons you're glad you quit, and post these reasons where you'll be sure to see them.

Make a calendar for the first 90 days. Cross off each day and indicate the money you saved by not smoking.

Set other, intermediate target dates, and do something special with the money you've saved.


COMMON RATIONALIZATIONS

Rationalization Response

I'm under a lot of stress, Your body's used to nicotine, so you and smoking relaxes me. naturally feel more relaxed when you give your body a substance it's come to depend on. But nicotine really is a stimulant - it raises your heart rate, blood pressure, and adrenaline level. Most ex-smokers feel much less nervous just a few weeks after quitting.

Smoking makes me more Trouble concentrating can be a short- effective in my work. term symptom of quitting, but smoking actually deprives your brain of oxygen.

I've already cut down Cutting down is a good first step, to a safe level. but there's a big difference in the benefits to you between smoking a little and not smoking at all. Besides, smokers who cut back often inhale more often and more deeply - negating many of the benefits of cutting back. After you've cut back to about seven cigarettes a day, it's time to set a quit date.

I smoke only safe, low-tar These cigarettes still contain harm- low-nicotine cigarettes. ful substances, and many smokers who use them inhale more often and more deeply to maintain their nicotine intake. Also, carbon monoxide intake often increases with a switch to low-tar cigarettes.

It's too hard to quit. Quitting and staying away from I don't have the willpower. cigarettes is hard, but it's not impossible. More than 3 million Americans quit every year. It's important for you to remember that many people have had to try more than once, and try more than one method, before they became ex-smokers, but they HAVE done it, and so can you.

I'm worried about gaining Most smokers who gain more than weight. 5-10 pounds are eating more. Gaining weight isn't inevitable - there are certain things you can do to help keep your weight stable. (See "Tips To Help You Avoid Weight Gain".)

I don't know what to do That's a common complaint among with my hands. ex-smokers. You can keep your hands busy in other ways - it's just a matter of getting used to the change, of not holding a cigarette. Try holding something else, such as a pencil, paper clip, or marble. Practice simply keeping your hands clasped together. If you're at home, think of all the things you wish you had time to do, make a list, and consult the list for alternatives to smoking whenever your hands feel restless.

Sometimes I have an This is a common feeling, especially almost irresistible urge within the first 1-3 weeks. The to have a cigarette. longer you're off cigarettes, the more your urges probably will come at times when you smoked before, such as when you're drinking coffee or alcohol or are at a cocktail party where other people are smoking. These are high-risk situations, and you can help yourself by avoiding them whenever possible. If you can't avoid them, you can try to visualize in advance how you'll handle the desire for a cigarette if it arises in those situations.

I blew it, I smoked a Smoking one, or even a few, cigarette. cigarettes doesn't mean you've "blown it." It does mean that you have to strengthen your determination to quit, and try again - harder. Don't forget that you got through several days, perhaps even weeks or months, without a cigarette. This shows that you don't need cigarettes and that you CAN be a successful quitter.

Monday, June 28, 2010

How To Quit Smoking...And Quit For Keeps

INTRODUCTION
This guides you from thinking about stopping through actually doing it - from the day you quit to quitting for keeps. It gives tips on fighting temptation - and what to do if you give in - and on avoiding weight gain (a handy Snack Calorie Chart is included). By telling you what to expect, it can help you through the day-to-day process of becoming and remaining a nonsmoker.
Here you'll find a variety of tips and helpful hints on kicking your smoking habit. Take a few moments to look at each suggestion carefully. Pick those you feel comfortable with, and decide today that you're going to use them to quit. It may take a while to find the combination that's right for you, but you can quit for good, even if you've tried to quit before.
Many smokers have successfully given up cigarettes by replacing them with new habits, without quitting "cold turkey," planning a special program, or seeking professional help.
The following approaches include many of those most popular with ex-smokers. Remember that successful methods are as different as the people who use them. What may seem silly to others may be just what you need to quit - so don't be embarrassed to try something new. These methods can make your own personal efforts a little easier.
Pick the ideas that make sense to you. And then follow through - you'll have a much better chance of success.

PREPARING YOURSELF FOR QUITTING...



  • Decide positively that you want to quit. Try to avoid negative thoughts about how difficult it might be.
  • List all the reasons you want to quit. Every night before going to bed, repeat one of the reasons 10 times.
  • Develop strong personal reasons in addition to your health and obligations to others. For example, think of all the time you waste taking cigarette breaks, rushing out to buy a pack, hunting for a light, etc.
  • Begin to condition yourself physically: Start a modest exercise program; drink more fluids; get plenty of rest; and avoid fatigue.
  • Set a target date for quitting - perhaps a special day such as your birthday, your anniversary, or the Great American Smokeout. If you smoke heavily at work, quit during your vacation so that you're already committed to quitting when you return. Make the date sacred, and don't let anything change it. This will make it easy for you to keep track of the day you became a nonsmoker and to celebrate that date every year.

KNOWING WHAT TO EXPECT...

  • Have realistic expectations - quitting isn't easy, but it's not impossible either. More than 3 million Americans quit every year.
  • Understand that withdrawal symptoms are TEMPORARY. They usually last only 1-2 weeks.
  • Know that most relapses occur in the first week after quitting, when withdrawal symptoms are strongest and your body is still dependent on nicotine. Be aware that this will be your hardest time, and use all your personal resources - willpower, family, friends, and the tips in this booklet - to get you through this critical period successfully.
  • Know that most other relapses occur in the first 3 months after quitting, with situational triggers - such as a particularly stressful event - occur unexpectedly. These are the times when people reach for cigarettes automatically, because they associate smoking with relaxing. This is the kind of situation that's hard to prepare yourself for until it happens, so it's especially important to recognize it if it does happen. Remember that smoking is a habit, but a habit you can break.
  • Realize that most successful ex-smokers quit for good only after several attempts. You may be one of those who can quit your first try. But if you're not, DON'T GIVE UP. Try again.

INVOLVING SOMEONE ELSE...

  • Bet a friend you can quit on your target date. Put your cigarette money aside for every day, and forfeit it if you smoke. (But if you do smoke, DON'T GIVE UP. Simply strengthen your resolve and try again.)
  • Ask your spouse or a friend to quit with you.
  • Tell your family and friends that you're quitting and when. They can be an important source of support, both before and after you quit.

WAYS OF QUITTING...

Switch brands

  • Switch to a brand you find distasteful.
  • Change to a brand that's low in tar and nicotine a couple of weeks before your target date. This will help change your smoking behavior. However, DO NOT smoke more cigarettes, inhale them more often or more deeply, or place your fingertips over the holes in the filters. All of these will increase your nicotine intake, and the idea is to get your body used to functioning without nicotine.

Cut down the number of cigarettes you smoke

  • Smoke only half of each cigarette.
  • Each day, postpone lighting your first cigarette 1 hour.
  • Decide you'll smoke only during odd or even hours of the day.
  • Decide beforehand how many cigarettes you'll smoke during the day. For each additional cigarette, give a dollar to your favorite charity.
  • Change your eating habits to help you cut down. For example, drink milk, which many people consider incompatible with smoking. End meals or snacks with something that won't lead to a cigarette.
  • Reach for a glass of juice instead of a cigarette for a "pick-me-up."
  • Remember: Cutting down can help you quit, but it's not a substitute for quitting. If you're down to about seven cigarettes a day, it's time to set your target date and get ready to stick to it.

Don't Smoke "Automatically"

  • Smoke only those cigarettes you really want. Catch yourself before you light up a cigarette out of pure habit.
  • Don't empty your ashtrays. This will remind you of how many cigarettes you've smoked each day, and the sight and smell of stale butts will be very unpleasant.
  • Make yourself aware of each cigarette by using the opposite hand or putting cigarettes in an unfamiliar location or a different pocket to break the automatic reach.
  • If you light up many times during the day without even thinking about it, try to look in a mirror each time you put a match to your cigarette - you may decide you don't need it.

Make smoking inconvenient

  • Stop buying cigarettes by the carton. Wait until one pack is empty before you buy another.
  • Stop carrying cigarettes with you at home and at work. Make them difficult to get to.

Make smoking unpleasant

  • Smoke only under circumstances that aren't especially pleasurable for you. If you like to smoke with others, smoke alone. Turn your chair toward an empty corner and focus only on the cigarette you are smoking and its many negative effects.
  • Collect all you cigarette butts in one large glass container as a visual reminder of the filth smoking represents.

JUST BEFORE QUITTING...

Practice going without cigarettes.

  • Don't think of NEVER smoking again. Think of quitting in terms of 1 day at a time.
    Tell yourself you won't smoke today, and then don't.
  • Clean your clothes to rid them of the cigarette smell, which can linger a long time.

ON THE DAY YOU QUIT...

  • Throw away all your cigarettes and matches. Hide your lighters and ashtrays.
  • Visit the dentist and have your teeth cleaned to get rid of tobacco stains. Notice how nice they look, and resolve to keep them that way.
  • Make a list of things you'd like to buy for yourself or someone else. Estimate the cost in terms of packs of cigarettes, and put the money aside to buy these presents.
  • Keep very busy on the big day. Go to the movies, exercise, take long walks, go bike riding.
  • Remind your family and friends that this is your quit date, and ask them to help you over the rough spots of the first couple of days and weeks.
  • Buy yourself a treat or do something special to celebrate.

IMMEDIATELY AFTER QUITTING...

  • Develop a clean, fresh, nonsmoking environment around yourself - at work and at home. Buy yourself flowers - you may be surprised how much you can enjoy their scent now.
  • The first few days after you quit smoking, spend as much free time as possible in places where smoking isn't allowed, such as libraries, museums, theaters, department stores, and churches.
  • Drink large quantities of water and fruit juice (but avoid sodas that contain caffeine).
  • Try to avoid alcohol, coffee, and other beverages that you associate with cigarette smoking.
    Strike up a conversation instead of a match for a cigarette.
  • If you miss the sensation of having a cigarette in your hand, play with something else - a pencil, a paper clip, a marble.
  • If you miss having something in your mouth, try toothpicks or a fake cigarette.

Avoid temptation

  • Instead of smoking after meals, get up from the table and brush your teeth or go for a walk.
  • If you always smoke while driving, listen to a particularly interesting radio program or your favorite music, or take public transportation for a while, if you can.
  • For the first 1-3 weeks, avoid situations you strongly associate with the pleasurable aspects of smoking, such as watching your favorite TV program, sitting in your favorite chair, or having a cocktail before dinner.
  • Until you're confident of your ability to stay off cigarettes, limit your socializing to healthful, outdoor activities or situations where smoking isn't allowed.
  • If you must be in a situation where you'll be tempted to smoke (such as a cocktail or dinner party), try to associate with the nonsmokers there.
  • Try to analyze cigarette ads to understand how they attempt to "sell" you on individual brands.

Find new habits

  • Change your habits to make smoking difficult, impossible, or unnecessary. For example, it's hard to smoke when you're swimming, jogging, or playing tennis or handball. When your desire for a cigarette is intense, wash your hands or the dishes, or try new recipes.
  • Do things that require you to use your hands. Try crossword puzzles, needlework, gardening, or household chores. Go bike riding; take the dog for a walk; give yourself a manicure; write letters.
  • Enjoy having a clean-mouth taste and maintain it by brushing your teeth frequently and using a mouthwash.
  • Stretch a lot.
  • Get plenty of rest.
  • Pay attention to your appearance. Look and feel sharp.
  • Try to find time for the activities that are the most meaningful, satisfying, and important to you.

When you get the crazies

  • Keep oral substitutes handy - try carrots, pickles, sunflower seeds, apples, celery, raisins, or sugarless gum instead of a cigarette.
  • Take 10 deep breaths and hold the last one while lighting a match. Exhale slowly and blow out the match. Pretend it's a cigarette and crush it out in an ashtray.
  • Take a shower or bath if possible.
  • Learn to relax quickly and deeply. Make yourself limp, visualize a soothing, pleasing situation, and get away from it all for a moment. Concentrate on that peaceful image and nothing else.
  • Light incense or a candle instead of a cigarette.
  • Never allow yourself to think that "one won't hurt" - it will.

About gaining weight

Many people who're considering quitting are very concerned about gaining weight. If you're concerned about gaining weight, keep these points in mind:

  • Quitting doesn't mean you'll automatically gain weight. When people gain, most of the time it's because they eat more once they've quit.
  • The benefits of giving up cigarettes far outweigh the drawbacks of adding a few extra pounds. You'd have to gain a very large amount of weight to offset the many substantial health benefits that a normal smoker gains by quitting. Watch what you eat, and if you're concerned about gaining weight, consider the following tips:

Tips to help you avoid weight gain...

  • Make sure you have a well-balanced diet, with the proper amounts of protein, carbohydrates, and fat.
  • Don't set a target date for a holiday, when the temptation of high-calorie food and drinks may be too hard to resist.
  • Drink a glass of water before your meals.
  • Weigh yourself weekly.
  • Chew sugarless gum when you want sweet foods.
  • Plan menus carefully, and count calories. Don't try to lose weight - just try to maintain your prequitting weight.
  • Have low-calorie foods on hand for nibbling. Use the Snack Calorie Chart to choose foods that are both nutritious and low in calories. Some good choices are fresh fruits and vegetables, fruit and vegetable juices, low-fat cottage cheese, and air-popped popcorn without butter.
  • Take time for daily exercise, or join an organized exercise group.